I dunno why and how . Sometimes , what I said can just anyhow happen in the future . Maybe what I say can't be considered as a correct statement right now but in future , it can be the truth .
For example ...
Last time when I was in primary school , normally guys always said that they're strong , stronger than girls , even some of them always said that girls always can cry cry cry , can't do anything but crying , guys will always be stronger than girls , can't be weak , etc. . So , ya , when I heard that statement , I only kept in quiet , but then , at home , before I slept , I thought again about that statement . Is that true that guys are stronger than girls , and forever it will be ? Is it true that guys will never be weak ? Is it true that girl can cry only and do nothing ? Hmmm... So ya , I thought so hard and analyzed it till the next day , I told them my statement , ya , the statement that made them quite shock . Coz that statement came out from the mouth of 9 year old girl that commonly would know nothing about life . What I told them was ,"Hey , actually you guys are wrong about your statement that stating that girls are always weak and guys are always stronger than girls . No , I don't think that's true , just see , one day , you guys will be feeling that girls are your weakness , when you will kneel in front of girls , begging for their kindness ... When your strength will be nothing ... When girls look stronger than you ... and when you will cry because of girls !"
The guys in my primary school who were listening to my statement , were all stunned and couldn't say anything . One of them only who denied it and said that I might be insane by telling about this kind of statement that's quite difficult to be understood by guys in primary school .
So ya , I just kept in silence after that .
Then after that , when I was in secondary school . One day I caught this guy who was in the same primary school with me and listened to my statement that day , crying in the corner of my school . I wondered what happened to him , then I approached him and asked him about what has happened to him , was he injured or something . Then , slowly he told me that he just broke up with his gf , and he already begged her to be in relationship with him still , but she just kept rejecting him . I was like oh okay... love problem . So then I sat next to him and accompanied him crying without saying anything , just kept in silence , till then I remembered about my statement in primary school . So , I asked him ,"Hey , do you remember ??"
Then he asked me "Remember what ?"
I said ,"When we were in primary school , remember ? I stated that one day , guy can cry for girl , and girl can be a guy's weakness , and guy can just kneel in front of girl begging for her kindness and when they guy is not strong anymore ... remember ??"
Then he said ,"OMG , yeah right , I remember ! How come your statement is so damn true ? Your parents did tell you ?"
I answered ,"No , nobody told me , I just anyhow found it by my self , no books no anything , it's just that I found it appeared inside my mind ... after I analyzed it ."
"You got sixth sense ? Or are you indigo girl ?"
"Hmmm I'm not sure about that , it's just that sometimes there's something crossing my mind and I analyze it , then when I say it to some people , they might not believe it , but then in future , it's just anyhow happened ..."
10 Apr 2013
They Don't Have 'Pause' or 'Stop' Button
Hmmmm time runs so fast . I'm going back to my hometown in 40 days . My assessment is coming soon as well . *uurrggghhh*
Anyway , I dunno why every time I'm going back to my hometown , what I expect from my big family (included aunties , uncles , granparents , cousins , etc. ) never happened . My expectation is that I can get a warm welcome from them , not questions . Their questions ah... very irritating sometimes , although some of them are still okay and reasonable . For example ... (Oh and anyway , if you found people calling me in my Chinese name it's because my big family always calls me in Chinese name , Rong Li , they don't really remember my English name , haha ... )
My Dad : How's the weather in Singapore ? (It's hot here ) Do you often get flu there ? (No) I remember you always get flu in Malang , dunno why . (Ya , ikr , Malang is too damn cold for me)
My Mom : How's your school ? (It's okay) Good marks or no ? (Average) Got boyfriend or no ? (No , haven't found the right one , can't just anyhow declare that someone is my bf mah... not good) Any handsome guys in Singapore ? (Hmmm so far , not really , not my type la) Eh how come you change your style arh ? (Of course , fashion design course changes me) Wah liao , what's this ?? You wear strange outfits , no wonder no guys want you . (Huh ? I thought wearing blouse and shorts is okay ?) Anyway , if you can't find bf , mommy understand , it's difficult to find right guy nowadays , mommy can introduce you to a guy , he's my friend's son , 28 years old , rich , handsome , blah blah blah , so ya , if ya want , I can intro you lor ! How ? You want ? You want ? (Wth , I do really hope that he's not a pedo or lollita complex man that is looking for young girl 10 years younger than him . Anyway , rich and handsome only isn't enough !) You arh , too picky one ! Handsome and rich , that's perfect lor ! Why you dun want ?? (Handsome and rich but the personality is like shit I also will dump him in 1 day only , one day then say good byeeeee !! ) Wah liao , these days still thinking like that ?? Later you will get married at 30 , no way ! Mommy dun want you to get married so late , at least the latest must married already when you're 25 ! (Oh really ? Hmmm... ok ...) Anyway , if you're looking for bf , I just want you to date guy whose race is chinese , I dun like you to date ang moh or indian , or any others , chinese only , okay ?? (Yes , mommy ...) Oh and anyway , dun date younger guy , better be like me and your dad , got age gap , I'm 5 years younger than your dad , so that the guy can lead you , not you leading him . (Ya...) I dun like you to change change guy also , just decide your choice ! (Ya...) I really dunno why , your friends arh , can get bf easily and go steady , not like you , so difficult to get one . Go find , your age is mature enough to have bf (Ya...) Lower your expectation ! (Ya...) Don't be too picky ! (I'm not picky , it's just about my feeling lor ... If no feeling then how to make my relationship last longer ? ) When I was in your age , I already got bf you know ? (Ya...) Later when you have one ,be faithful to your bf , ok ? (Ya...) If you're in relationship , dun flirt with other guys , even go together with other guys also don't , ok ? Later your bf jealous and get angry , you know ? (Ya...) Anyway , what's your type in looking for bf ? (Zzzzzz.....) Hey , hey , are you listening ??
My Brother : Hey , you arh ! Go to Anime Festival there , bo jio sia ! (Hey , but I bought you two swords what !) Ya ikr , you bought me those , but I also wanted to take pics with the cosplayers ... Oh did you see any cosplay outfits sold there ? (Ya I saw , but don't expect me to buy one for you , too damn expensive...) Eh next time buy me Gundam , okay ? (Wah liao , you want to kill me ?? Unless you send me money from Indonesia , hahaha your own money , not dad's money) Oh come on la , Jie ... you're my beautiful nice friendly jie jie , please buy for me , oh just make it as my bday gift ?
My Auntie ('Ai Ren' Auntie) : Rong Li... How's Singapore ? Wah liao , now you already become a 新 加 坡 的 妹 妹 ah ? (Haha ... not yet , my citizenship is still Indonesian . ) How's your study there ? (Hmmm not bad , sometimes no sleep at night though...) Ni you mei you ai ren ? (Mei you...) Wah liao ... How come mei you one ?? (I'm in Singapore for studying , not really looking for ai ren , but if find the right one then go date him la)
My Auntie (Shopper Auntie) : Rong Li... how's Singapore ?? ( Oh it's good , Auntie...) You enjoy stay there ? (Ya , Auntie... I really enjoy ) Later how ? Wanna settle there ? (Ya , I guess so...) I heard that there are a lots of shopping mall in Singapore ? (Yup , kinda) Do you often go shopping ? (Hmmm not really , just when first month being in Singapore I spent much money in shopping , haha) Where's the good shopping mall area ? (Hmmm Orchard ? Or maybe Bugis or Dhoby Ghaut also can . My campus is surrounded by those areas , hahaha ) Whoa , so lucky ! Can you bring me there next time ? (Can... can... don't worry , haha)
My Uncle : Hi , Rong Li ... How's your life in Singapore ? Nice or no ? (Nice , nice .... Haha...) Is it expensive to live in Singapore ? (Hmmm compared to living in Malang , of course there's more ex ) What language do you speak there ? English or Chinese ? (Hmmm mixed . Mostly English , but when talking to old people there , better use Chinese coz most of them can't speak English well but my Chinese is bad also , so ya , better dun really talk to old people there except if I do really need to talk to them ) People there can speak Hokien or Cantonese ? (Hmmm both la , mostly Hokkien but some of them speak Cantonese too )
My Cousin (Shopper Cousin) : Hi , Rong Li ! How's your life there ?? (Oh hi hi , my life is ok there ) Do you often go shopping there ?? ( Hmmm not really , hahaha walking around only , not like every time buy stuffs , hahaha except for school stuffs ) I really want to go to Orchard again , you know last time when I was there , I was so stunned by the shops , so many nice clothes !! (Ya , ya ikr , hehe) I love Bugis too ! So many cheap stuffs ! I spent SGD 200 in 2 hours only and got so many nice clothes (What ?? 200 ??) Is NAFA near Bugis ? (Ya , very close to Bugis , just need to walk) Whoa , so lucky ! I wish I could study in NAFA too , can go Bugis everyday ...
My Cousin (Education Cousin) : Hey , how's the education in Singapore ? (It's nice , need to be discipline as well) I also want to study there , but dun really know the good universities there (Hmmm maybe I can help you find , what you want to study ?) I want to study about communication . (Hmmm communication ah ? Hmmm let me think , maybe you can search on google , coz I dun really know about that , since I'm studying fashion design ...)
My Cousin (Movie Cousin) : Yo , Rong Li ! How's your life there ? (Yo , cousin ! My life is good there... ) Any good movies there ? (Hmmm kinda ) How much is the ticket for watching movie there ? (Hmmm depends ,,, if you're student , can get student deal every Monday to Friday , it's around $6-$7 , but every Saturday and Sunday no student deal , it's around $10-$12) Hmmm same as in Jakarta lor ... (Ya but with that price , in Jakarta we can watch in Blitz Megaplex already mah... T.T) Hmm, you often go watch movie ? (Hmmm it's always my friends asking me hang out then watch movie lor ...) You watch any local movies ? (Hmmm ya , sometimes , but mostly I watch box office movies )
My Cousin ('Ai Ren' Cousin) : Hi Rong Li , how's life in Singapore ? Any handsome guys ? (Hmmm it's ok , well... not really , why ? ) Eh really ? I thought Singapore guys are mostly handsome ? (Well handsome is relative lor... handsome for you but not always handsome for me , haha) You got bf already ? (No... ) Wah , really ? Hmmm next time can you intro me to Singapore guys ? (Ya , okay ) Oh you know ? Last time I visited Universal Studios , I saw a guy , so damn leng zai le !!! (Oh okay...) Really , he made me stunned (Okay...) I want to study there also , you know ? So that I can see handsome guys every day (okay...)
My Grandma : Rong Li arh... How's Singapore ? Ni you mei you nan peng you ? (Oh it's ok , Po Po , hmmm mei you...) What do you learn ? Hua hua yi fu ma ? (Yes , and sewing also )
Ya , after this when I'm going back to my hometown again , I hope their questions will change , but if their questions are still the same , hmmmm I think the similar questions must come from bf thingy . Dunno why they always want to know about this matter . So , after this , if my aunties , my grandma or my mom ask me 'ni you mei you ai ren ?' or 'ni you mei you nan peng you ?' or any other similar questions , I'll proudly , immediately , directly , exactly say 'wo you !' or 'you lah !!' or 'dui dui , wo you ai ren !' I hope it can make them shut up . Oh wait , I forget , I just realized that they don't have 'pause' or 'stop' button ! Oh God ... confirm if I answer like that , they'll 'bombard' me with these questions "Really ??? What's his name ?? Where's he from ?? Is he Singaporean ?? Is he Indonesian ?? Is he ang moh ? Is he leng zhai ?? Is he rich ?? Is he Chinese ? Is he Hokkien ?? Is he Cantonese ?? How long have you been in relationship ?? When will you introduce him to us ?? Why don't you bring your nan peng you to here ?? Is he nice ?? How did you meet him ?? What do you usually do with him ?? Where does he stay ? Is he a student ? What does he study ? Is he older than you ? How old is him ? Does he work ? What's his job ?" and etc...
I'll be like ... "Oh God... why ???" *cover face with both hands*
When I say I dun have bf , they 'bombard' me with lots of questions
when I say I have bf , they also will do that
wah liao , bo pian sia...
Better just give them smile smile only then ...
haha
Anyway , I dunno why every time I'm going back to my hometown , what I expect from my big family (included aunties , uncles , granparents , cousins , etc. ) never happened . My expectation is that I can get a warm welcome from them , not questions . Their questions ah... very irritating sometimes , although some of them are still okay and reasonable . For example ... (Oh and anyway , if you found people calling me in my Chinese name it's because my big family always calls me in Chinese name , Rong Li , they don't really remember my English name , haha ... )
My Dad : How's the weather in Singapore ? (It's hot here ) Do you often get flu there ? (No) I remember you always get flu in Malang , dunno why . (Ya , ikr , Malang is too damn cold for me)
My Mom : How's your school ? (It's okay) Good marks or no ? (Average) Got boyfriend or no ? (No , haven't found the right one , can't just anyhow declare that someone is my bf mah... not good) Any handsome guys in Singapore ? (Hmmm so far , not really , not my type la) Eh how come you change your style arh ? (Of course , fashion design course changes me) Wah liao , what's this ?? You wear strange outfits , no wonder no guys want you . (Huh ? I thought wearing blouse and shorts is okay ?) Anyway , if you can't find bf , mommy understand , it's difficult to find right guy nowadays , mommy can introduce you to a guy , he's my friend's son , 28 years old , rich , handsome , blah blah blah , so ya , if ya want , I can intro you lor ! How ? You want ? You want ? (Wth , I do really hope that he's not a pedo or lollita complex man that is looking for young girl 10 years younger than him . Anyway , rich and handsome only isn't enough !) You arh , too picky one ! Handsome and rich , that's perfect lor ! Why you dun want ?? (Handsome and rich but the personality is like shit I also will dump him in 1 day only , one day then say good byeeeee !! ) Wah liao , these days still thinking like that ?? Later you will get married at 30 , no way ! Mommy dun want you to get married so late , at least the latest must married already when you're 25 ! (Oh really ? Hmmm... ok ...) Anyway , if you're looking for bf , I just want you to date guy whose race is chinese , I dun like you to date ang moh or indian , or any others , chinese only , okay ?? (Yes , mommy ...) Oh and anyway , dun date younger guy , better be like me and your dad , got age gap , I'm 5 years younger than your dad , so that the guy can lead you , not you leading him . (Ya...) I dun like you to change change guy also , just decide your choice ! (Ya...) I really dunno why , your friends arh , can get bf easily and go steady , not like you , so difficult to get one . Go find , your age is mature enough to have bf (Ya...) Lower your expectation ! (Ya...) Don't be too picky ! (I'm not picky , it's just about my feeling lor ... If no feeling then how to make my relationship last longer ? ) When I was in your age , I already got bf you know ? (Ya...) Later when you have one ,be faithful to your bf , ok ? (Ya...) If you're in relationship , dun flirt with other guys , even go together with other guys also don't , ok ? Later your bf jealous and get angry , you know ? (Ya...) Anyway , what's your type in looking for bf ? (Zzzzzz.....) Hey , hey , are you listening ??
My Brother : Hey , you arh ! Go to Anime Festival there , bo jio sia ! (Hey , but I bought you two swords what !) Ya ikr , you bought me those , but I also wanted to take pics with the cosplayers ... Oh did you see any cosplay outfits sold there ? (Ya I saw , but don't expect me to buy one for you , too damn expensive...) Eh next time buy me Gundam , okay ? (Wah liao , you want to kill me ?? Unless you send me money from Indonesia , hahaha your own money , not dad's money) Oh come on la , Jie ... you're my beautiful nice friendly jie jie , please buy for me , oh just make it as my bday gift ?
My Auntie ('Ai Ren' Auntie) : Rong Li... How's Singapore ? Wah liao , now you already become a 新 加 坡 的 妹 妹 ah ? (Haha ... not yet , my citizenship is still Indonesian . ) How's your study there ? (Hmmm not bad , sometimes no sleep at night though...) Ni you mei you ai ren ? (Mei you...) Wah liao ... How come mei you one ?? (I'm in Singapore for studying , not really looking for ai ren , but if find the right one then go date him la)
My Auntie (Shopper Auntie) : Rong Li... how's Singapore ?? ( Oh it's good , Auntie...) You enjoy stay there ? (Ya , Auntie... I really enjoy ) Later how ? Wanna settle there ? (Ya , I guess so...) I heard that there are a lots of shopping mall in Singapore ? (Yup , kinda) Do you often go shopping ? (Hmmm not really , just when first month being in Singapore I spent much money in shopping , haha) Where's the good shopping mall area ? (Hmmm Orchard ? Or maybe Bugis or Dhoby Ghaut also can . My campus is surrounded by those areas , hahaha ) Whoa , so lucky ! Can you bring me there next time ? (Can... can... don't worry , haha)
My Uncle : Hi , Rong Li ... How's your life in Singapore ? Nice or no ? (Nice , nice .... Haha...) Is it expensive to live in Singapore ? (Hmmm compared to living in Malang , of course there's more ex ) What language do you speak there ? English or Chinese ? (Hmmm mixed . Mostly English , but when talking to old people there , better use Chinese coz most of them can't speak English well but my Chinese is bad also , so ya , better dun really talk to old people there except if I do really need to talk to them ) People there can speak Hokien or Cantonese ? (Hmmm both la , mostly Hokkien but some of them speak Cantonese too )
My Cousin (Shopper Cousin) : Hi , Rong Li ! How's your life there ?? (Oh hi hi , my life is ok there ) Do you often go shopping there ?? ( Hmmm not really , hahaha walking around only , not like every time buy stuffs , hahaha except for school stuffs ) I really want to go to Orchard again , you know last time when I was there , I was so stunned by the shops , so many nice clothes !! (Ya , ya ikr , hehe) I love Bugis too ! So many cheap stuffs ! I spent SGD 200 in 2 hours only and got so many nice clothes (What ?? 200 ??) Is NAFA near Bugis ? (Ya , very close to Bugis , just need to walk) Whoa , so lucky ! I wish I could study in NAFA too , can go Bugis everyday ...
My Cousin (Education Cousin) : Hey , how's the education in Singapore ? (It's nice , need to be discipline as well) I also want to study there , but dun really know the good universities there (Hmmm maybe I can help you find , what you want to study ?) I want to study about communication . (Hmmm communication ah ? Hmmm let me think , maybe you can search on google , coz I dun really know about that , since I'm studying fashion design ...)
My Cousin (Movie Cousin) : Yo , Rong Li ! How's your life there ? (Yo , cousin ! My life is good there... ) Any good movies there ? (Hmmm kinda ) How much is the ticket for watching movie there ? (Hmmm depends ,,, if you're student , can get student deal every Monday to Friday , it's around $6-$7 , but every Saturday and Sunday no student deal , it's around $10-$12) Hmmm same as in Jakarta lor ... (Ya but with that price , in Jakarta we can watch in Blitz Megaplex already mah... T.T) Hmm, you often go watch movie ? (Hmmm it's always my friends asking me hang out then watch movie lor ...) You watch any local movies ? (Hmmm ya , sometimes , but mostly I watch box office movies )
My Cousin ('Ai Ren' Cousin) : Hi Rong Li , how's life in Singapore ? Any handsome guys ? (Hmmm it's ok , well... not really , why ? ) Eh really ? I thought Singapore guys are mostly handsome ? (Well handsome is relative lor... handsome for you but not always handsome for me , haha) You got bf already ? (No... ) Wah , really ? Hmmm next time can you intro me to Singapore guys ? (Ya , okay ) Oh you know ? Last time I visited Universal Studios , I saw a guy , so damn leng zai le !!! (Oh okay...) Really , he made me stunned (Okay...) I want to study there also , you know ? So that I can see handsome guys every day (okay...)
My Grandma : Rong Li arh... How's Singapore ? Ni you mei you nan peng you ? (Oh it's ok , Po Po , hmmm mei you...) What do you learn ? Hua hua yi fu ma ? (Yes , and sewing also )
Ya , after this when I'm going back to my hometown again , I hope their questions will change , but if their questions are still the same , hmmmm I think the similar questions must come from bf thingy . Dunno why they always want to know about this matter . So , after this , if my aunties , my grandma or my mom ask me 'ni you mei you ai ren ?' or 'ni you mei you nan peng you ?' or any other similar questions , I'll proudly , immediately , directly , exactly say 'wo you !' or 'you lah !!' or 'dui dui , wo you ai ren !' I hope it can make them shut up . Oh wait , I forget , I just realized that they don't have 'pause' or 'stop' button ! Oh God ... confirm if I answer like that , they'll 'bombard' me with these questions "Really ??? What's his name ?? Where's he from ?? Is he Singaporean ?? Is he Indonesian ?? Is he ang moh ? Is he leng zhai ?? Is he rich ?? Is he Chinese ? Is he Hokkien ?? Is he Cantonese ?? How long have you been in relationship ?? When will you introduce him to us ?? Why don't you bring your nan peng you to here ?? Is he nice ?? How did you meet him ?? What do you usually do with him ?? Where does he stay ? Is he a student ? What does he study ? Is he older than you ? How old is him ? Does he work ? What's his job ?" and etc...
I'll be like ... "Oh God... why ???" *cover face with both hands*
When I say I dun have bf , they 'bombard' me with lots of questions
when I say I have bf , they also will do that
wah liao , bo pian sia...
Better just give them smile smile only then ...
haha
9 Apr 2013
Why We Love Whom We Love
Hmmm that topic ... Ya , once my English course teacher gave me that article when I was in high school . Besides having English class in school , my parents also asked me to join English course outside of school . So ya , I joined lor , nothing wrong with this , I could add more knowledge for my English ability . This English course was special for me . I like the way my course teacher taught all of the students . He always gave all of us one English article from Reader's Digest every meeting . After that I must answer some questions that he gave after reading it . So ya , I read one article , the title was "Why We Love Whom We Love" . I was quite interested in it once I read the title . I also wondered why . Why I love whom I love ? Sometimes I have reasons for that but sometimes , really no reason at all . I just anyhow love him or something like that .
Then , after I read that article , I realized that ya... the reasons that the author wrote there quite logic also . She said that actually , whether we realize or no... Guys mostly like a girl who got one or more than one similarities with his mother , and girls mostly like a guy who got one or more than one similarities with her father . At first , I was quite confused with that statement . Is that true ?? So ya , at night after the course , before I slept , I thought about that statement again , and ya , the result was true , that statement is right for me . So far , mostly the guys whom I liked got the similarities with my father . Whether it's physically or psychologically . My father is not so tall , he's only 160 - 165 cm's tall and he's not fat . That's why , so far , the guys I liked , they do have that kind of physical condition .
Psychologically , my father is a straight forward person , sometimes also speak whatever he wants without thinking about the person's feeling . Like for example , when I asked him about my new clothes or something , he just anyhow said that it's ugly or something . Maybe because it's me having not too sensitive feeling at that time so I just ignored lah . But maybe if he said that to other girls or women , they could just slap him or something . My Dad is also that kind of person who doesn't talk much . So far , I never liked guys who talk too much . Talking is okay , but not too much . Once I got this one guy , he liked me but I strongly didn't like him at all , you know why ? He talked too damn much , like hell ! OMG , even he often chopped of my talking and just anyhow changed the topic to the topic that he liked . Wth , I was like "stay away from me , you freak !" But I never said that to him , haha , I'm not that kind of person who can just anyhow say everything inside my mind . I just kept in quiet , just let him read by him self that I storngly dislike him , but ya , I think he's not smart enough to read my 'hating him' signal . So okay , I don't care , just ignored him and never talked to him anymore .
Next , my Dad is a funny man . He often makes jokes , also his reaction to any jokes that I tell is nice . I like the way he react to my jokes , so funny , haha . Anyway , his reaction to my jokes is the same with my current bf's reaction . Hahaha so cute and funny .
Anyway , I got my father's personalities as well . I'm that kind of 'okay okay' person . Haha , I mean like everything is okay for me , unless if got something that I terribly disagree or dislike , I will be strongly not okay with that .
Then , next , I'm that kind of patient person I guess , since I can barely get angry or get emotional . That's not me . When a problem happens to me , normally I'll just make my self calm down first then think how to solve the problem . When got some people disturb me or annoy me , normally I will just try to ignore them first till if I really can't tahan anymore , ya , they'll see by them self what will happen to them , just wait , muahahahhaa *devil laugh , lol*
Then , I also think that action = reaction . Once people treat me nicely , I'll treat them nicely too , but when they treat me like rubbish , I won't hesitate to treat them like rubbish too . Haha...
But not all my personalities are the same with my father though .
Anyway , my brother also likes girl who got the similar personalities with my mother .
My mom is quite emotional and short tempered , I mean can get angry easily .
Once , my brother got girlfriend , she's also like that . Emotional , and short tempered . Whoa , my mom was like "hmmm beware , later if he married to her , how ? Everyday fight with me ..."
Hahahah
Ya lor , I can't imagine , if his gf then argued with my mom because they're both same short tempered and emotional . Wah liao , 'fire burning' sia , haha but now they're no longer together , my brother said that he can't tahan her behaviours anymore , so easy got angry and often fought with him . Besides , at that time I found her only played played with him , it's only that my brother never realized that . Haha , better find patient gf next time , didi , since you're short tempered also , later if you get fierce gf , then your relationship can be like... ya... fire burning , haha .
Then , after I read that article , I realized that ya... the reasons that the author wrote there quite logic also . She said that actually , whether we realize or no... Guys mostly like a girl who got one or more than one similarities with his mother , and girls mostly like a guy who got one or more than one similarities with her father . At first , I was quite confused with that statement . Is that true ?? So ya , at night after the course , before I slept , I thought about that statement again , and ya , the result was true , that statement is right for me . So far , mostly the guys whom I liked got the similarities with my father . Whether it's physically or psychologically . My father is not so tall , he's only 160 - 165 cm's tall and he's not fat . That's why , so far , the guys I liked , they do have that kind of physical condition .
Psychologically , my father is a straight forward person , sometimes also speak whatever he wants without thinking about the person's feeling . Like for example , when I asked him about my new clothes or something , he just anyhow said that it's ugly or something . Maybe because it's me having not too sensitive feeling at that time so I just ignored lah . But maybe if he said that to other girls or women , they could just slap him or something . My Dad is also that kind of person who doesn't talk much . So far , I never liked guys who talk too much . Talking is okay , but not too much . Once I got this one guy , he liked me but I strongly didn't like him at all , you know why ? He talked too damn much , like hell ! OMG , even he often chopped of my talking and just anyhow changed the topic to the topic that he liked . Wth , I was like "stay away from me , you freak !" But I never said that to him , haha , I'm not that kind of person who can just anyhow say everything inside my mind . I just kept in quiet , just let him read by him self that I storngly dislike him , but ya , I think he's not smart enough to read my 'hating him' signal . So okay , I don't care , just ignored him and never talked to him anymore .
Next , my Dad is a funny man . He often makes jokes , also his reaction to any jokes that I tell is nice . I like the way he react to my jokes , so funny , haha . Anyway , his reaction to my jokes is the same with my current bf's reaction . Hahaha so cute and funny .
Anyway , I got my father's personalities as well . I'm that kind of 'okay okay' person . Haha , I mean like everything is okay for me , unless if got something that I terribly disagree or dislike , I will be strongly not okay with that .
Then , next , I'm that kind of patient person I guess , since I can barely get angry or get emotional . That's not me . When a problem happens to me , normally I'll just make my self calm down first then think how to solve the problem . When got some people disturb me or annoy me , normally I will just try to ignore them first till if I really can't tahan anymore , ya , they'll see by them self what will happen to them , just wait , muahahahhaa *devil laugh , lol*
Then , I also think that action = reaction . Once people treat me nicely , I'll treat them nicely too , but when they treat me like rubbish , I won't hesitate to treat them like rubbish too . Haha...
But not all my personalities are the same with my father though .
Anyway , my brother also likes girl who got the similar personalities with my mother .
My mom is quite emotional and short tempered , I mean can get angry easily .
Once , my brother got girlfriend , she's also like that . Emotional , and short tempered . Whoa , my mom was like "hmmm beware , later if he married to her , how ? Everyday fight with me ..."
Hahahah
Ya lor , I can't imagine , if his gf then argued with my mom because they're both same short tempered and emotional . Wah liao , 'fire burning' sia , haha but now they're no longer together , my brother said that he can't tahan her behaviours anymore , so easy got angry and often fought with him . Besides , at that time I found her only played played with him , it's only that my brother never realized that . Haha , better find patient gf next time , didi , since you're short tempered also , later if you get fierce gf , then your relationship can be like... ya... fire burning , haha .
8 Apr 2013
Can't Imagine That
Dunno why suddenly this thinking just crossed my mind . Last time in high school , I got one genius friend . As I remember , he dated a genius girl in my school also . Then my class mates , some of them , started imagining something that were quite funny .
They said that they couldn't imagine how genius their child would be if one day they're married . Wah liao , me too , same liao . I couldn't imagine how their child would be like if they were married one day . One of my friend said that later their child could do his/her very first chemistry experiment when he/she was still 1 year old . Then I said that maybe their child would eat batteries instead of rice and meat or veggie . So crazy thinking sia , but might happen lor . Lol . Some of my friends said that if a genius guy married to genius girl , their children normally will be dumb or idiot . Wah liao !! Really meh ?? How come ?? Genius + Genius = Idiot ? Hmmmm... impressive ? Hahaha
I thought their children are supposed to be genius too ? Lol dunno , just a thinking .
They said that they couldn't imagine how genius their child would be if one day they're married . Wah liao , me too , same liao . I couldn't imagine how their child would be like if they were married one day . One of my friend said that later their child could do his/her very first chemistry experiment when he/she was still 1 year old . Then I said that maybe their child would eat batteries instead of rice and meat or veggie . So crazy thinking sia , but might happen lor . Lol . Some of my friends said that if a genius guy married to genius girl , their children normally will be dumb or idiot . Wah liao !! Really meh ?? How come ?? Genius + Genius = Idiot ? Hmmmm... impressive ? Hahaha
I thought their children are supposed to be genius too ? Lol dunno , just a thinking .
Good Luck for the Final Year High School / Junior College Students in Indonesia
Well , as I checked on internet or any other websites , I knew that next week is gonna be a big week for all final year high school / junior college students in Indonesia . Well , good luck for the national final exams , guys ! Study hard , coz it's for your future .
I do still remember how I studied like crazy few months before national final exams .
I always got those bunch of "Try Out" tests at school . Ya , I even got less time to touch my mobile phone for a few months before that national final exams . I was so damn afraid if I couldn't be graduated form my high school , I must be ashamed if I couldn't have been graduated . So , I kept reading my text books from school , I was so eager in doing the exercise from my text books and student workbooks also . Till I often stayed up late to study . My friends often blamed me because I seldom replied their text messages . You know ? They texted me at 7.00 PM then normally I replied them at around 11.00 PM plus after I finished studying or when I took a short break from studying . They said "Wth ?? I already asleep you know ?? Reply fast la !!" Hahaha , ya lor of course I couldn't reply fast , I always left my phone inside my room and I studied outside of my room , normally I studied in dining room . My mom told me to try not to bring phone with me while studying coz I can't concentrate on my study if I keep texting with my friends . So , ya , I left it inside my room lor . Sometimes also I forgot to top up my phone balance so I couldn't reply lor .
But after exam , yeah it's totally FREE , yay , could text till dawn also , hahahhaha
I miss my high school so damn badly though ...
Well , good luck and jia you for the students in high school final year . Especially form my beloved school , Hua Yin !! Jia youuuuu !!! I'm sure you guys can do your best and 100% graduated !!!
I do still remember how I studied like crazy few months before national final exams .
I always got those bunch of "Try Out" tests at school . Ya , I even got less time to touch my mobile phone for a few months before that national final exams . I was so damn afraid if I couldn't be graduated form my high school , I must be ashamed if I couldn't have been graduated . So , I kept reading my text books from school , I was so eager in doing the exercise from my text books and student workbooks also . Till I often stayed up late to study . My friends often blamed me because I seldom replied their text messages . You know ? They texted me at 7.00 PM then normally I replied them at around 11.00 PM plus after I finished studying or when I took a short break from studying . They said "Wth ?? I already asleep you know ?? Reply fast la !!" Hahaha , ya lor of course I couldn't reply fast , I always left my phone inside my room and I studied outside of my room , normally I studied in dining room . My mom told me to try not to bring phone with me while studying coz I can't concentrate on my study if I keep texting with my friends . So , ya , I left it inside my room lor . Sometimes also I forgot to top up my phone balance so I couldn't reply lor .
But after exam , yeah it's totally FREE , yay , could text till dawn also , hahahhaha
I miss my high school so damn badly though ...
Well , good luck and jia you for the students in high school final year . Especially form my beloved school , Hua Yin !! Jia youuuuu !!! I'm sure you guys can do your best and 100% graduated !!!
Two More Weeks
Ya , two more weeks of school for second semester , and then I'll be having assessment and say hello to second year of fashion design course in NAFA ! OMG , can't believe it finally I'll be senior in NAFA . I'll be in year 2 , then can have internship .
Anyway , I think next week is gonna be a stressful week for me and maybe my classmates too . I'll be having a lots of submissions . I just remembered it today . Wow , impressive , in one week I'll have like 5 submissions and one multiple choice quiz . Hmmm well , can't say anything else but impressive . Ya , welcome to sleepless night . I think the mini market near my hostel must add more stocks of coffee . I need coffee , to make me keep awake , or Red Bull also can . But I prefer coffee or tea though . *yawn*
Anyway , I dunno what's wrong with my laptop or what's wrong with the IT department in my school , I can't set the wifi network in my campus . My classmate's laptop can access , but mine totally can't . Wah liao , can't do homework at school , and can't check my e-mail there also . This laptop is heavy also , then need to bring my laptop to IT department on Wednesday . OMG , nice , it will be a heavy day on Wednesday , bringing sketch book and laptop . I also dunno why IT department will only help us about the wifi setting on Wednesday , no other days . So irritating sia ...
Today also dunno why class was so boring and ya today is the schedule for that 'wow' lecturer who always calls everyone in school with 'darling' . She always scolds at least one student in every meeting . Last time I got scold because I combed my hair in class . Lucky today she didn't scold me because I sat in class nicely , kept in quiet and listened to her carefully . She scolded one of my classmates though . In office this morning when I worked there as a part timer student helper in my campus , she also got ask for my help , she called me 'darling' as usual (hope that someone out there won't be jealous of this , lol , don't worry , I'm not a leso , I'm 100% straight) , and asked me to help her printing some attendance list for the meeting or something . So , I printed for her lor . Lucky she didn't complain me or something .
Anyway , I think next week is gonna be a stressful week for me and maybe my classmates too . I'll be having a lots of submissions . I just remembered it today . Wow , impressive , in one week I'll have like 5 submissions and one multiple choice quiz . Hmmm well , can't say anything else but impressive . Ya , welcome to sleepless night . I think the mini market near my hostel must add more stocks of coffee . I need coffee , to make me keep awake , or Red Bull also can . But I prefer coffee or tea though . *yawn*
Anyway , I dunno what's wrong with my laptop or what's wrong with the IT department in my school , I can't set the wifi network in my campus . My classmate's laptop can access , but mine totally can't . Wah liao , can't do homework at school , and can't check my e-mail there also . This laptop is heavy also , then need to bring my laptop to IT department on Wednesday . OMG , nice , it will be a heavy day on Wednesday , bringing sketch book and laptop . I also dunno why IT department will only help us about the wifi setting on Wednesday , no other days . So irritating sia ...
Today also dunno why class was so boring and ya today is the schedule for that 'wow' lecturer who always calls everyone in school with 'darling' . She always scolds at least one student in every meeting . Last time I got scold because I combed my hair in class . Lucky today she didn't scold me because I sat in class nicely , kept in quiet and listened to her carefully . She scolded one of my classmates though . In office this morning when I worked there as a part timer student helper in my campus , she also got ask for my help , she called me 'darling' as usual (hope that someone out there won't be jealous of this , lol , don't worry , I'm not a leso , I'm 100% straight) , and asked me to help her printing some attendance list for the meeting or something . So , I printed for her lor . Lucky she didn't complain me or something .
7 Apr 2013
Superman - Taylor Swift
Tall dark and super manly
Puts papers in his briefcase and drives away
To save the world or go to work
It’s the same thing to me
He’s got his mother’s eyes, his father’s ambition
I wonder if he knows how much that I miss him
Hang on every word you say
And you smile and say how are you?
And I’ll say just fine.
I always forget to tell you I love you.
I’ll love you forever
I watched Superman fly away
You got a busy day today
Go save the world
I’ll be around
I watched superman fly away
Come back I’ll be with you someday
I’ll be right here on the ground
When you come back down
Tall, dark and beautiful, he’s complicated, he’s irrational
But I hope someday he’ll take me away and save the day, yeah
Something in his deep brown eyes has me saying,
He’s not all bad like his reputation
And I can’t hear one single word they say.
And you’ll leave, got places to be and I’ll be OK
I always forget to tell you I love you
I loved you from the very first day
I watched Superman fly away
You got a busy day today
Go save the world, I’ll be around
I watched Superman fly away
Come back, I’ll be with you someday
I’ll be right here on the ground
When you come back down
And I watch you fly around the world
And I hope you don’t save some other girl
Don’t forget, don’t forget about me
I’m far away but I never let you go
I’m lovestruck and looking out the window
Don’t forget, don’t forget where I’ll be
Right here wishing the flowers were from you
Wishing the card was from you
Wishing the call was from you
‘Cause I’ve loved you from the very first day
I watched Superman fly away
You got a busy day today
Go save the world, I’ll be around
For ever and ever
I watched Superman fly away
I swear I’ll be with you someday
I’ll be right here on the ground
When you come back down
Come back down
(Superman - Taylor Swift)
Dunno why I love this song . Maybe because it happens to me ? Although it does not literally happen or doesn't 100% happen to me but I feel that this song can figure me out . Haha ..
Puts papers in his briefcase and drives away
To save the world or go to work
It’s the same thing to me
He’s got his mother’s eyes, his father’s ambition
I wonder if he knows how much that I miss him
Hang on every word you say
And you smile and say how are you?
And I’ll say just fine.
I always forget to tell you I love you.
I’ll love you forever
I watched Superman fly away
You got a busy day today
Go save the world
I’ll be around
I watched superman fly away
Come back I’ll be with you someday
I’ll be right here on the ground
When you come back down
Tall, dark and beautiful, he’s complicated, he’s irrational
But I hope someday he’ll take me away and save the day, yeah
Something in his deep brown eyes has me saying,
He’s not all bad like his reputation
And I can’t hear one single word they say.
And you’ll leave, got places to be and I’ll be OK
I always forget to tell you I love you
I loved you from the very first day
I watched Superman fly away
You got a busy day today
Go save the world, I’ll be around
I watched Superman fly away
Come back, I’ll be with you someday
I’ll be right here on the ground
When you come back down
And I watch you fly around the world
And I hope you don’t save some other girl
Don’t forget, don’t forget about me
I’m far away but I never let you go
I’m lovestruck and looking out the window
Don’t forget, don’t forget where I’ll be
Right here wishing the flowers were from you
Wishing the card was from you
Wishing the call was from you
‘Cause I’ve loved you from the very first day
I watched Superman fly away
You got a busy day today
Go save the world, I’ll be around
For ever and ever
I watched Superman fly away
I swear I’ll be with you someday
I’ll be right here on the ground
When you come back down
Come back down
(Superman - Taylor Swift)
Dunno why I love this song . Maybe because it happens to me ? Although it does not literally happen or doesn't 100% happen to me but I feel that this song can figure me out . Haha ..
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